From an early age I wanted to be a journalist. The reasons being I loved writing, I enjoyed talking with people and I saw it as a glamorous profession. When it came time to discuss what I wanted to do with my life my father said ‘no daughter of mine is going to be a journalist’. He is very much a ‘realist’ and believed that the jobs were in the hospitality industry, he said he would only contribute to my tertiary education if I would enrol in the Central Institute of Technology’s Hospitality Management Diploma. They promised that students would be equipped for entry level into middle management positions. This experience is why I largely chose Saul’s ‘The unconscious civilisation’ for this papers second assignment.
After about three months we went on a field trip around the major hotels in Wellington. I spoke with several senior managers and it became apparent middle management jobs were being phased out. I spoke with my parents about leaving the course as I had absolutely no interest or inclination in the industry and my father’s words now appeared to be redundant. I left after the first year, scraping by on C’s and moved up to Auckland to find out what I wanted to do and either pursue it or go back to tertiary education depending on the requirements.
My father was not impressed and considered my actions to be lazy as I was not finishing something I had started. I, on the contrary, believe my decision to be now what is referred to as ‘behaviourism’ (71135, 2010). I believed this decision was logical. My reasoning was that if I had continued in the course I would have a considerable student loan and the trends emerging showed that I may not have received the necessary financial rewards, in the form of a job, to pay off the debt I would have incurred. I believed the consequence of continuing my studies and subsequently pleasing my father were not worth the financial debt and ultimately I would not have been happy or fulfilled in that profession.
After I moved to Auckland I accepted a position at Rocom Communications as a Sales Coordinator and discovered many of my talents (except writing) were suitable in a sales role. I pursued a career in sales until I later discovered marketing!! My father and I had many interesting conversations in this instance relating to a postmodern society.
‘Postmodernism……term used to describe a society in which everything is defined according to its context.’ (71135, 2010,p.5) In other words it is dependent on an individual’s viewpoint. My father described the situation as dropping out from C.I.T, where as I saw it as not spending additional student loan on a career I had absolutely no interest in pursuing.
My father and I have had a subsequent discussion on computer technology. He felt that it was useless to study technology as it is constantly changing. His belief was that as a young person you would study for a period of time, gain the qualifications required and then get a job. This would be defined as a modern society or viewpoint according to Jarvis in his reading on the social background of lifelong learning. The difference between how we both saw education was that I saw it more in the form of postmodernism in ‘the shift from education to lifelong learning’ (Jarvis,P, Holford, J & Griffen, C. 1998 p,20). I personally have always thought of education as organic it is a lifelong learning process.